Thinking about it, but not sure.

There is no right answer to this, and none of these tools will tell you to leave. They are for getting clear, not for getting talked into something.

• Divorce Readiness AssessmentThe full picture — where you are on the decision, your support system, safety, finances, kids, and how cooperative your spouse would likely be. Scored into a predicted path, cost, and timeline.
• Divorce Stress AssessmentWhere your stress load actually sits, and what tends to help at each level.
• Conflict Level AssessmentA short, private read on how you and your spouse handle disagreement — and which process fits that.
• Talk to our mediation team — freeTwenty minutes, no charge, nothing filed. If there is any disagreement between you, this is where to start: Utah requires mediation before a contested case gets a trial date, and we will tell you honestly whether it fits — or point you to an attorney in our network if it doesn't.
• Not sure you want to end it?Discernment counseling is built for exactly this: one of you leaning out, one leaning in, and no clarity yet. It is short, it is not couples therapy, and it exists to help you decide.
• Find a therapistUtah therapists who work with people at this stage, including individual work while you decide.

The number most people are afraid of. Run it on your own figures — these calculate, they don't estimate at you.

• Divorce Cost EstimatorWhat a Utah divorce runs end to end, itemized, comparing mediation against litigation.
• Alimony CalculatorWhat spousal support might look like under Utah's §81-4-502 factors — whether you'd be paying or receiving.
• Child Support CalculatorUtah's income shares model, run on your actual incomes and overnight split.
• Total Obligations CalculatorSupport and alimony combined, against your net take-home. The number that tells you whether this is survivable.
• Post-Divorce Budget CalculatorWhat your month looks like on one income, with Utah cost-of-living figures.
• What is the house worth?$250 flatA current, defensible valuation from a Utah agent. Most of the money in a divorce is in the house, and most people are guessing at this number.

• The Utah process, start to finishEvery stage in order, with how long each one realistically takes.
• The 30-day waiting periodUtah makes you wait. What the clock is, when it starts, and when it can be waived.
• What the state chargesFiling fees by county, and how a fee waiver works if you can't cover it.
• Contested vs. uncontestedThe single biggest factor in both cost and timeline. Worth understanding before you talk to anyone.

Everything here reduces what a divorce would cost you if you go ahead — and costs you nothing if you don't. This is the highest-value hour you can spend at this stage.

• Document Gathering ChecklistEvery financial document you'd be asked for, in priority order. Far easier to collect now than during.
• Financial Snapshot WorksheetOne printable page: income, accounts, property, and debts. It's the backbone of the financial declaration the court will want.
• Account Inventory WorksheetEvery joint and individual account, loan, and policy in one place — including the ones only one of you tracks.
• Property InventoryReal property, vehicles, and personal property with estimated values.
• Credit Protection GuideWhat to do about joint credit before anything is filed, and what not to do — some moves look like dissipation to a court.
• Separation Agreement TemplatePlain-language terms for living separately, whether or not it ends in divorce.

A real possibility, not a courtesy line. These are the paths that don't end the marriage.

• Discernment counselingShort, structured, and designed for couples where one is leaning out. Three honest paths, and help choosing between them.
• divviPostnupA postnuptial agreement settles the financial questions without ending the marriage — often what people actually want when the fight is about money. Coming soon.
• Separation vs. divorceWhat legally separating does and doesn't do in Utah — insurance, taxes, debts, and whether it's a step or a destination.
• AnnulmentNarrow grounds, but worth ruling in or out before you file for anything else.
• USU Extension — relationship and divorce educationUtah State's programs, including work for couples who haven't decided. Free or low cost.

• DIY vs. divvi vs. attorneyCost, risk, and support level, stated honestly — including when you should hire a lawyer instead of using us.
• Mediation vs. litigationCost, timeline, privacy, and how much control you keep over the outcome.
• Joint vs. sole custodyWhat legal and physical custody actually mean, and what each implies for support and scheduling.
• Sell the home vs. keep itThe trade-offs, the tax consequences, and what Utah courts typically order.