Post-Divorce — First 30 Days

Beneficiary Update Checklist

Every account and policy that needs a new beneficiary named after your divorce — with deadlines and what happens if you forget.

Urgent: In most states including Utah, beneficiary designations supersede your will. If your ex-spouse is still listed as beneficiary, they may receive the assets even if your decree says otherwise.
Utah law note: Utah Code § 75-2-804 does automatically revoke beneficiary designations in favor of an ex-spouse for certain assets upon divorce — but this has exceptions and does not cover all account types, including many employer retirement plans governed by federal law (ERISA). Always update manually to be certain.
Financial Accounts
401(k) and 403(b) plans
Contact HR or your plan administrator. Federal law (ERISA) governs these — Utah's auto-revocation statute does NOT apply. Must update the plan's own beneficiary form.
IRA accounts (Traditional and Roth)
Log in to your custodian (Fidelity, Vanguard, Schwab, etc.) and update online, or complete a paper beneficiary form. Also update contingent beneficiaries.
Pension plans
Contact the plan administrator or HR. If a QDRO was issued as part of your divorce, review how survivor benefits were addressed.
Brokerage / investment accounts (TOD)
Transfer-on-death (TOD) designations bypass probate. Update through your brokerage's beneficiary portal or with a paper form.
Bank accounts (POD)
Payable-on-death designations must be updated directly with your bank. Visit a branch or call customer service — most allow updates online now.
Insurance
Life insurance policies (all of them)
Contact each insurance company directly. Check every policy — term, whole life, universal. Request a beneficiary change form or do it through the insurer's online portal.
Annuities
Contact the insurance company or financial institution that issued the annuity. Update both primary and contingent beneficiaries.
Employer-provided group life insurance
Contact HR and complete a new beneficiary form through your benefits portal. This is a separate form from your 401(k) beneficiary designation.
Legal Documents
Will
Divorce does NOT automatically update your will in Utah (it revokes some provisions but not all). Have an attorney draft a new will as soon as possible after your divorce is final.
Revocable living trust
If you have a living trust, have an attorney amend or restate it to remove your ex-spouse as successor trustee or beneficiary.
Power of Attorney — revoke old, create new
Revoke any existing power of attorney that named your ex-spouse in writing. Then execute a new durable POA naming someone you trust. File the revocation if needed.
Healthcare directive / advance directive
Update who can make medical decisions for you if you are incapacitated. Execute a new Utah Advance Health Care Directive naming a new agent.
Employer-Specific Accounts
HSA / FSA accounts
Health Savings Accounts have beneficiary designations — update through your HSA custodian. FSA funds typically don't transfer at death but confirm with your plan.
Stock options and RSUs
Contact your employer's equity or stock plan administrator (often a third-party platform like Fidelity NetBenefits or Carta). Confirm how unvested shares were addressed in your decree.
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